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PERSONALITY TRANSFORMATIONS: MYTHS ON ALTERING PERSONALITY TYPES

  We tend to think that we are who we are and there is not much we can do about that. But the fact is, we choose our personality and who we are. Our personality is shaped by the choices we make over time. One of the most frequent questions in personal development probably is “Can I change my personality type?” According to most personality type theories, the person’s type is inborn and does not change . However, people can develop traits and habits that differ or even directly contradict the description of their type.   An example may help us understand better. Suppose lights in the room suddenly go off and we are in complete darkness. We may be able to navigate our way to the door, but which of our senses will come into play? Touch? Hearing? Smell? It would be anything but vision, our preferred sense. As soon as the lights come back on, we will switch back to using vision again as it makes it much easier to navigate around the room. The way our personality works is quite ident

DEVELOPING CONSISTENCY: BEHAVIOURS INVOLVED

  Every single one of us has the potential to be so much more than we are, and throughout our lives, we stumble upon so many amazing ideas and take great initiatives for our growth and well-being, and we also go to great lengths to get started and get things going. So many great ideas and initiatives just get buried in the ground forever. So many people who have the potential to achieve so much never make it, only because of the  lack of consistency . We often have so many positive intentions and thoughts, and we often know what we “should” do to increase the quality of our lives. If only we could consistently follow some of our life’s callings, our lives might transform beyond our imagination. This can also lead to:- 1)       Self Doubt. Doubting our own ability to be consistent and ability to follow through, leading to people’s image of us being inconsistent. 2)       Self Image. This doubting impacts our self-image and self-esteem.  3)       Loss Of Trust. This leads