ConceptsNest

  Why don’t facts change our minds? Why is it that even when faced with undeniable evidence, people often hold on to false or inaccurate ideas? What drives such behaviors, and how might they actually serve us in unexpected ways? These questions dig deep into human psychology, social dynamics, and the way our brains process information. The Logic of False Beliefs Humans need a reasonably accurate view of the world in order to survive . If our model of reality is wildly different from the actual world, then we struggle to take effective actions each day. However, truth and accuracy are not the only things that matter to the human mind. Humans also seem to have a deep desire to belong. Understanding the truth of a situation is important, but so is remaining part of a tribe. While these two desires often work well together, they occasionally come into conflict. In many circumstances; social connection is actually more helpful to our daily life than understanding the truth of a partic...

Negotiation is an inherent part of influencing someone . In a work environment, it can be external negotiations, with a supplier or a client; or internal, with a boss, colleague or subordinate. But we must also negotiate with ourselves , be aware of instinctive reactions (psychological and physical) , in order to regulate them and respond consciously and appropriately to the circumstances so that we get the best result. All negotiations comprise two dimensions: The “substance,” meaning the subject matter or objective of the negotiation, and the “relationship,” i.e., the interaction or connection with the other person . We negotiate because we are looking to gain something or because the relationship with the other party is important. These two dimensions are always in play and under tension because the things we do to improve the substance—such as not making concessions—damage the relationship to a certain degree. Conversely, when we try to grow the relationship, decisions like be...